GREETINGS FROM THE FAMILY PRIDE COALITION!

THANK YOU FOR JOINING US IN FAMILY PRIDE’S FIRST-EVER ‘VIRTUAL RALLY’

The board and staff of the Family Pride Coalition wishes to thank all of you who participated in our “Virtual Rally” on March 10 to focus more attention on U.S. Education Secretary Margaret Spellings’ misguided and anti-family effort to keep inclusive children’s programming off the air.

We were so pleased and proud to offer you – especially those of you who weren’t able to view it in your local area – the opportunity to view the “Sugartime!” episode of “Postcards From Buster.”

Thank you again for taking action on this issue, and for your continued support of all our families.

FAMILY PRIDE WELCOMES NEW EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR

The Family Pride Coalition is proud to welcome Jennifer Chrisler as the organization’s new executive director.Jennifer will begin her tenure in mid-April. For a look at some of the articles that have appeared in news outlets across the country about Jennifer’s announcement, please click on the links below. To read the full news release about Jennifer, simply go to www.familypride.org.

Links

http://www.advocate.com/new_news.asp?ID=15363&sd=03/09/05

http://www.baywindows.com/news/2005/03/10/News/Jennifer.Chrisler.To.Lead.Family.Pride.Coalition-890680.shtml

http://www.baywindows.com/news/890705.html (editorial)

http://www.dallasvoice.com/articles/dispArticle.cfm?Article_ID=5797

http://www2.townonline.com/needham/localRegional/view.bg?articleid=203925

SUNSERVE, FAMILY PRIDE COALITION PRESENT SECOND ANNUAL ‘VALUING OUR FAMILIES’ CONFERENCE IN FLORIDA APRIL 8-10

Once again, the Family Pride Coalition employs our Community Event Model through our support of SunServe , Fort Lauderdale’s gay and lesbian social services agency, to present the second annual " Va luing Our Families" conference April 8-10, 2005. This gathering of families and allies will take place at the Metropolitan Community Church ’s Sunshine Cathedral in Fort Lauderdale , Florida .

The weekend conference will include more than 20 workshops and panels on a range of family issues, and will include activities for children, educational panels on marriage and parenting laws in Florida and a family picnic. In addition, participants are invited to a special evening gala event to honor LGBT family advocates.

Actress Sharon Gless (“Queer as Folk") was the recipient of the inaugural “ Va luing Our Families" award, and this year will present that honor to Rosie and Kelli O’Donnell. In addition to the O’Donnells, Florida activists Carole Benowitz and Steven Alicea will also receive a “ Va luing Our Families” award.

Benowitz is the Florida state coordinator for PFLAG (Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays). She is the founder of many of Florida ’s PFLAG chapters, and has done similar work in Alabama , Georgia , Mississippi and Puerto Rico . She has recently focused her talent and energy toward connecting LGBT youth in crisis to appropriate and safe foster care.

Steven Alicea, a 17-year-old LGBT teen advocate from Miami , has been in and out of 17 foster homes since he was 10 years old. Alicea formed a local chapter of GLSEN (Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network). After enduring rejection and hardship during his own years in foster care, Alicea now speaks to foster parents about issues regarding LGBT youth.

In addition to the host organization, the Sunshine Cathedral MCC, other co-sponsors of the conference include the National Conference for Community and Justice; Seniors Active in a Gay Environment (SAGE); Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG)/ Florida , South Florida Family Pride ; and the Broward Chapter of The National Organization for Women (NOW). 

For more information on the conference and the award celebration, go to www.sunserve.org or call (954) 462-2004.

To request information on how Family Pride  can collaborate with your local community, contact info@familypride.org

METRO DC LGBT PARENTING CONFERENCE SET FOR APRIL 30

On Sat., April 30, the Family Pride Coalition, COLAGE, Whitman-Walker Clinic and Rainbow Families/DC will sponsor our first Metro DC LGBT Parenting Conference. There will be over a dozen workshops for parents; on-site child care and activities for children eight years and under, and workshop tracks for children ages nine and older provided by COLAGE.  We need volunteers to help with a variety of tasks, ranging from morning set-up and registration to child care. If you would like to help out, contact Ellen Kahn at (202) 797-3522 or ekahn@wwc.org. Volunteers can be eligible to have their registration fees reduced or waived.

Rainbow Families/DC will soon have a new home at Whitman-Walker Clinic.  In order to help expand the reach, membership and range of programs provided by Rainbow Families/DC, we plan to establish a steering committee to help create mission/purpose statement for RFDC, develop by-laws/operating procedures for RFDC, engage in strategic planning to determine priorities for next three years and more. If you can commit some time to help shape the future of our local parenting group, contact Kahn at the number listed above.

JOIN US FOR FAMILY PRIDE’S FOURTH ANNUAL FAMILY CAMP  IN  NEW JERSEY

The Family Pride Coalition is proud to host its fourth annual Family Camp on Memorial Day Weekend, May 27–29 in Newton , New Jersey (just 70 miles from New York City and 90 miles from Philadelphia ).

This gathering of LGBT parents and their children will take place at the Fairview Lake YMCA Camp and Conference Center , 1035 Fairview Lake Road in Newton , NJ . The phone at the campground is (973) 383-9282.

The weekend-long event will include many activities appropriate for all ages, including tie-dying, candle-making, bug hunting, archery, hiking, boating, swimming and more. Also featured in the weekend’s events are a camp fire, an ice cream social and a family dance.

Families will dine together in the community dining room reserved specially for our families. Families will also be sharing rustic or modern cabins. These cabins go fast, so please register your family as soon as possible. To register or for more information on cabin rates, please visit: http://familypride.org/events/familycamp2005.php

LGBT PARENTS IN THE NEWS

From the Washington  Post

Montgomery Parents View Sex-Ed Video

By Daniel de Vise

About 200 people, most of them parents, gathered yesterday at the Montgomery County campus of Johns Hopkins University to watch a video that has become the most disputed seven minutes of the county schools' curriculum.

The viewing of "Protect Yourself," produced by the school district for use in 10th-grade classrooms, was sponsored by a group opposed to the video. Audience members were mostly engrossed as they watched a young woman on the screen talk about abstinence, safe sex and the properties of latex, then unroll a condom onto a cucumber.

The video concluded to mostly awkward silence. Then members of the audience had their say.

"Condoms are not working," said Walter Harders, an insurance agent who took a turn at the microphone. "Our children are getting pregnant, and they are getting sexually transmitted diseases, and it has to stop."

The school board approved the video for districtwide use in November, adding it to the health education curriculum along with a pilot program on sexual orientation that also has been drawn into the community debate about values and parental rights.

Citizens for a Responsible Curriculum, the group that sponsored the presentation, handed out fliers listing elements of the revised curriculum that they deem offensive, immoral or inappropriate. They also circulated petitions urging the school board to discard it.

In the video, a narrator repeatedly reminds viewers to use a condom --  a word mentioned 44 times in seven minutes.

The lesson plan for eighth and 10th grades covers gender identity, defined as "a person's internal sense of knowing whether he is male or female." Tenth-graders also would be taught the concept of transgender, "someone whose gender identity or expression differs from conventional expectations for their physical sex."

The lessons state that "sex play with friends of the same gender is not uncommon" in early adolescence, and that this does not necessarily mean you are  homosexual. It includes same-sex couples among the "greater variety of households" in modern society.

Students'  parents must sign a form before they can participate in the sex-ed segment of health education class.

Some at the Rockville screening said the curriculum was further evidence of a homosexual agenda in the public schools, the work of gay advocacy groups intent on influencing children.

"They really want a monopoly over children's minds, and they will brook no opposition," said Robert Knight, director of the right-leaning Culture and Family Institute in Washington .

Janet Cummings, a Brookeville mother of two students, said she didn't like the tone of the video's narrator or its producers, who, in her view, seemed to be paying lip service to abstinence and implicitly endorsing premarital sex.

"Any young person there knows what's the cool thing that they were portraying, and it wasn't abstinence," she said.

Ruth Jacobs, a physician from Rockville , said the curriculum "puts a lot of pressure on kids to figure out who they are, what they are. And they shouldn't be forced to do that."

The quietest moment came when Scott Davenport of Bethesda spoke. "I am scared," he said, "because I am a gay man, and I am very scared to be here right now."

  "We all share the same concerns," said Davenport , who with his partner has two children, ages 12 and 14. "I personally don't find that video offensive. I find that video balanced. . . . Kids need to hear all sides of the story."

The curriculum was developed in 2003 by school district staff and reviewed by a board-appointed committee. Montgomery teachers had been forbidden to broach homosexuality except in response to a student's question, and there were no condom demonstrations.

School district policy requires  a curriculum that stresses abstinence but also discusses contraception.

Research suggests that this helped drive down teen pregnancy rates, although abstinence-only proponents say advising teens about safe sex encourages teenage sexuality.

"You're worried about a four-minute video and the impact it will have on your kid, when 23 hours and 56 minutes they're with you," said Karen Troccoli, an audience member who works for the National Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy. She said she was speaking for herself, not her employer.

*** Davenport  is the immediate past chair of the Family Pride Coalition board of directors.