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Family Pride is happy to serve as the national coordinator between LGBTQ-headed families and the local groups that support them. We know that most often the best contacts and sources of support for LGBTQ-headed families come right from their own communities. Click on your state to see the parents groups in your area.

  • If you lead or are a member of a group for LGBTQ parents and their families, let us know. We want to list your group! Fill out your parent group profile. Just for filling out your profile, we'll mail you our Parents Group Kit.
  • If you wish to modify your parent group profile, email david.jacques@familypride.org.
  • If you can not find a group in your state, start a group of your own.
  • For additional information about Parents Groups, visit our Parents Group Corner at www.familypride.org/parents.

International

  • lgbt ex-pat parent (updated 8.2007)
    > mission: To connect lgbt ex-pat parents living outside the US or our country of origin. To provide a sense of community where we might not otherwise have one.
    > where do you meet: We are currently on-line only, with the hopes of connecting parents living in the same area who can start parent groups. Solely a list-serv environment at this point.
    > contact person: Shannon Casey, lgbtexpatparent@yahoo.com

Alabama

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Arkansas

California

  • Auburn Gay Parents (updated 10.2006)
         > mission: Meet other local gay men and women who are raising children. Discuss important topics, such as "coming out" to your children, handling your child's peer concerns, playgroups, issues encountered in "straight" neighborhoods, meeting new people.
    > how often do you meet: Monthly
    > contact person: Jean Adams - Group Member
    > phone number: 530-210-6688
    > group website: http://gayparents.meetup.com/46
    > mailing address: 315 Carolyn St., Auburn, CA 95603
  • DeFrank Family (updated 10.2006)
    > mission: Are you raising a child? Want to meet others in the LGBT community who are also facing the family challenge?
    > DeFrank Family is an email list moderated by the DeFrank Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender (LGBT) Community and its volunteers. This list is to coordinate social events, support groups and related kid friendly events for LGBT Fathers and Mothers with children living at home and to offer support to people considering starting a family.
    > how often do you meet: online event list
    > where do you meet: Billy DeFrank Center, 938 The Alameda, San Jose, CA 95126
    > contact person: DeFrank_Family-owner@yahoogroups.com, phone number: 408 293 3040
    > group website: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/DeFrank_Family
    > mailing address: Billy DeFrank Center, 938 The Alameda, San Jose, CA 95126
  • Family Matters, San Diego (updated 1.2007)
    > mission: The Mission of Family Matters is to promote and sustain the well-being of families with one or more parent who is lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgendered as well as those considering parenthood in Southern California.
    > how often do you meet:
    CONSIDERING PARENTHOOD
    Meet monthly for support and inspiration for those who are considering being parents or are in the process of becoming parents.
    INFANT PLAYGROUPS
    Ages 0-2
    Meet monthly
    Check events for next date/location.
    TODDLER PLAYGROUPS
    Ages 2-5
    Meet montly at someone’s house.
    Check events for next date/location.
    OLDER KIDS PLAYGROUP
    Ages 6-11
    Meet 2nd Saturday of each month at Balboa Park.
    Check events for more details.
    PARENTS OF PRE-TEENS & TEENS
    Looking for support for you and your pre-teen or teen?
    Visit our website.
    SINGLE PARENTS
    Looking for support and social events with other single parents? Visit our website.
    > where do you meet: We meet at either someone's home or at Balboa Park. Please visit our website for specific details.
    > contact person: Jaime Hernandes, Family Matters Social Committee Member (Coordinator of Older Kids Playgroup)
    > phone number: 619/298-5431
    > group website: www.sdfamilymatters.org
    > mailing address: Family Matters,1010 University Avenue, PMB #803, San Diego, CA 92103
    > additional contact info: Email questions to: Info@SDFamilyMatters.org Main Phone number: 619/298-KID1 (5431) Older Kids Playgroup: 619/379-7643
  • Family Services Program, L.A. Gay & Lesbian Center (updated 4.23.2007)
    > mission: The Family Services Program provides support, education, advocacy and an array of social programming to prospective, expecting and existing LGBT parents and their children through: social gatherings, parent/infant play groups, parent support groups, parenting classes, annual parenting conference and resource fair, a lending library of books and videos, resources and referrals, and diversity trainings.
    > how often do you meet: Family Day in the Park: third Saturday of the month Parent Support Group: third Sunday of the month Parenting Classes: monthly Parent/Infant Play Group: weekly (Wednesdays)
    > where do you meet: Locations vary
    > contact person: Arielle Rosen, Family Services Manager
    > phone number: 323-860-7397
    > group website: www.lagaycenter.org
    > mailing address: 1625 N. Schrader Blvd., Los Angeles, CA 90028
  • FamilyPride High Desert (updated 10.2006)
    > mission: To instill in our local community that Love is what makes a family.
    > how often do you meet: We will be meeting once a month. We are a new chapter and still recruiting families to join us.
    > where do you meet: Meeting places are TBD
    > contact person: FamlyPride HD Moderator, FamilyPrideHD-owner@yahoogroups.com
  • Inland Empire LGBT Families (updated 12.2006)
    > mission: So many families here in the IE and we needed a way to get together.
    > how often do you meet: We meet whenever someone plans something.  Anyone has that option.
    > where do you meet: Parks mostly, but at homes too.
    > contact person: Gia
    > phone number: 9512370667
    > group website: http://www.ielgbtfamilies.com/
  • Mamas and Papas (updated 3.2007)
    > mission: A group for GLBT parents to discuss issues surrounding parenting, GLBT parenting (San Francisco).
    > how often do you meet: Mamas and Papas meets every 2nd and 4th Saturday at 10:00-11:30 (for parents of children 0-4) and the first Friday of every month from 6:00 to 8:00pm (for parents of children 5-8)
    > where do you meet: GLBT Center on Market St. in San Francisco. Childcare is available free from 9:30am to 12:00pm during Saturday meetings and 6-8pm on Friday meetings.
    > contact person: Warren (Trey) Lathe (Steering Committee member)
    > phone number: 415-252-7123
    > additional info: Topics of discussion range from gender issues with children to schooling and discipline, anything to do with parenting and/or GLBT specific-family issues. Arrival time is from 9:30am to 10am, discussion from 10-11:30 and social time is from 11:30-12. We also have occasional social gatherings and a weekend Mamas and Papas getaway in Russian River every summer.
  • Ohana Monterey (updated 1.2007)
    > mission: Parenting group for LGBT community, monthly get togethers, family outings for kids, parenting advice, etc
    > how often do you meet: we try for monthly
    > where do you meet: Parks, homes, special events, etc
    > contact person: RC Lechuga - Group Moderator
    > phone number: 831-277-8189
    > email: ohana_monterey@yahoogroups.com
  • Our Family Coalition (updated 11.2006)
    > mission: Community Events provide opportunities for LGBT parents and their children to meet and get to know other families like theirs. Our events are affirming to our families, celebrating the diversity within the LGBT community.
    Educational Programs & Workshops offer information on both LGBT-specific and general parenting topics in an LGBT sensitive environment.
    Resources for Your Family give your family valuable up-to-date information through our quarterly newsletter, a bi-weekly e-newsletter and three discussion listservs for parents to network and share resources with one another.
    Trainings & Community Partnerships create safer, more inclusive schools & other services that serve LGBT families and their children.
    > how often do you meet: Several times per month.
    > where do you meet: Throughout the San Francisco Bay Area; including the East Bay.
    > contact person: Aimee Fisher, Program Director
    > phone number: 415-981-1960
    > group website: www.ourfamily.org
    > mailing addy: 870 Market Street, Suite 872 San Francisco, CA 94102
  • Rainbow Families of Greater Pasadena (updated 4.23.2007)
    >     mission: Rainbow Families is a newly formed support group for LBGTQ parents and their children serving the greater Pasadena area including Sierra Madre, La Canada, Monrovia and more. For more information contact RainbowFamilies@uuneighborhood.org.
    > how often do you meet: Our kick-off event is a family picnic on Sunday, May 6th from 2-3:30. We will meet with picnics for our families and we will provide the drinks and the fun.
    > where do you meet: Events held and sponsored by Neighborhood Unitarian Universalist Church, 301 N. Orange Grovee Blvd. Pasadena.
    > contact person: Terri Hopper
    > phone number: 213 220 9076
    > group website: www.uuneighborhood.org
    > mailing address: 301 N. Orange Grove Blvd., Pasadena, CA 91103
  • Sonoma County Gay Dads (updated 1.2007)
    > mission: Social networking
    > how often do you meet: Every few months, irregular and casual
    > where do you meet: Member's homes
    > contact person: Geoff MacMillan
    > phone number: 707-874-9098
  • South Bay Families Together (updated 3.2007)
    >     mission: To bring together LGBT families in the Los Angeles South Bay area.
    > how often do you meet: We are just starting up. We plan to meet monthly on the 4th Saturday of the month. Our first events will be on April 28 and May 26, 2007.
    > where do you meet: A park in the South Bay. The first two meetings will be in Long Beach
    > contact person: Robert Valadez, Family Advocate, LA Gay & Lesbian Center
    > phone number: 323-860-7342
    > group website: http://www.lagaycenter.org (Services/Programs: Parents/Families)
    > mailing address: Los Angeles Gay & Lesbian Center, McDonald/Wright Building, 1625 N. Schrader Boulevard, Los Angeles, CA 90028-6213
  • The Pop Luck Club (updated 11.2006)
    > mission: The Pop Luck Club's mission is to advance the well-being of gay prospective parents, gay parents, and their children. We do this through mutual support, community collaboration, and public understanding.
    > how often do you meet: Twice a month:
    Two regularly scheduled meetings per month:
    * First Sunday of every month in West Hollywood.
    * Third Sunday of every month in Orange County.
    The Pop Luck Club also holds special events at some other times - see the event listings on our website for more information.
    > where do you meet: West Hollywood and Orange County. Email us for additional information.
    > phone number: 323-854-0656
    > group website: www.popluckclub.org
    > mailing address: The Pop Luck Club, P.O. Box 69865, West Hollywood, CA 90069
    > additional contact info: Note that email is the quickest way to reach us.
  • Valley Play Group (updated 3.2007)
    > mission: An informal monthly gathering at various San Fernando Valley homes/parks for our kids to play with other families like theirs.
    > how often do you meet: We meet monthly.
    > where do you meet: We meet at a different home/park each month.
    > contact person: Ali Nickel-Dubin
    > additional info: Our group is very active in the summer, but lacks motivation in cooler months.

Colorado

  • Denver Lesbian Moms Meetup (updated 10.2006)
    > mission: We are two-mom and single lesbian mom families who are parenting, expecting, adopting, or considering parenthood. Our goal: To build a strong community for our children, so they can grow up knowing other kids with families just like theirs.
    > how often do you meet: We try to meet at least once per month
    > where do you meet: Various venues around the Denver Metro area
    > contact person: Organizers: Hayley and Gabrielle
    > group website: http://lesbianmoms.meetup.com/38/about
    > additional contact info: You may contact the Organizers via the meetup website.
    > additional info: Our group is as diverse as the community which surrounds us. Lesbian run families of all walks of life are part of our group, it strives on it's diversity.

Connecticut

  • Families By Choice (updated 1.2007)
    > mission: Social get-togethers, to enable the kids to grow up knowing other families like their own. The ages of the kids range from 2 to 12.
    > how often do you meet: We meet about once a month.
    > where do you meet: At various houses in eastern Connecticut.
    > contact person: Tirza Roda, tirza_roda@sbcglobal.net
  • We're Everywhere With Our Children (WEWOK) (updated 05.2007)
    > mis sion: to create a social network for LGBTQ Parents and their children. Our primary goal is to create community, while strengthening children's esteem through social interaction, making friends, and having fun! Parents need interaction and involvement with others who have kids. We’re here to do that!  (This is a lesbian parent run group.)
    > how often do you meet: We meet on the Third Friday of Every Month on the campus of Connecticut College. Meetings are publicized in local newspapers. These meetings are set up to involve and create community, and also to plan unpublished, social events for the month ahead.
    > where do you meet: on the campus of Connecticut College . Here is a link for directions: http://www.conncoll.edu/offices/cels/directions.html 
    We also meet virtually on wewok@yahoogroups.com. This is a by-invitation only. Go to yahoogroups.com, click on the link to find a group. Enter “wewok” without the quotes. This will lead you into a page where you can send a request to join. All requests will be monitored by two WEWOK facilitators and then we’ll add you to the group. This keeps out spam and keeps the group private so we can share addresses and phone numbers without worry.
    > contact person: Mary Vona, Facilitator, email:  wewok1@yahoo.com   -or-   wewok@yahoogroups.com
    > phone number: (860)608-3568

Delaware

  • Family Pride of Delaware (updated 1.2007)
         > mission: This group began in 1996. It began so our families could see that there were families out there just like ours. It is primarily a social group getting together for many holidays throughout the year.
    > how often do you meet: 6-8 times per year!
    > where do you meet: Different houses or parks throughout Delaware! and at Family Week in P-town.
    > contact person: Jolly Bailey
    > phone number: 856-299-6398
    > mailing address: Jolly Bailey, 786 W. Quillytown Road, Carney's Point, NJ 08069
    > additional info: Established in 1996

District of Columbia

  • Rainbow Families DC (updated 10.2006)
    > mission: Rainbow Families DC started a number of years ago as a small social network for gays and lesbians with children. Recently we began to transition from an informal, list-serve based network of LGBT parents to a more structured, multi-faceted support and advocacy organization. A Board of Directors was created as were many volunteer opportunities.
    > group website:     http://www.rainbowfamiliesdc.org
    > additional contact info: We have three "communities" on Yahoo Groups right now.

Florida

  • Orlando Gay Parents Group (updated 7. 200 7 )
    > mission: Our organization has two goals. First and foremost the playgroup provides the children of gay parents an opportunity to have fun with children from similar families. It is crucial to our children’s mental health and emotional well being that they interact with other families that “mirror” their own family! This way they can feel that their family is “normal” too! Furthermore, research has found that the adolescent years are especially difficult for children of gay parents. Strong bonds of friendship with other children of gay parents provide our children with a support system to help them weather the stormy passage through adolescence.
    Our second goal is to provide gay parents with an opportunity to socialize and network with other gay parents. Parenting can be especially demanding and challenging. Socializing with other gay parents is not only fun but it provides a forum for the exchange of parenting ideas and resources.
    > how often do you meet: Our group typically meets for a big picnic and playtime on the first Saturday of each month.
    > where do you meet: Various Locations
    > contact person: Tamara Savallisch, New Member Coordinator, savalp_g@yahoo.com
  • South Florida Family Pride (updated 11.2006)
    > mission: monthly family gatherings and group support!
    > how often do you meet: Monthly... different events posted on website.
    > where do you meet: Palm Beach, Broward and Dade Counties
    > contact person: michael@southfloridafamilypride.com
    > group website: http://www.SouthFloridaFamilyPride.com
  • Tampa Bay Family Pride (updated 10.2006)
    > mission: social organization supporting gay families and our children
    > how often do you meet: socials held several times a year
    > where do you meet: various
    > contact person: Cathy James
    > phone number: 727-424-5717
    > group website: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Tampabayfamilypride
  • Tampa Gay Dad's (updated 9.2007)
    > mission: To get to know other Men who are going through, or have gone through the same things, forge strong friendships, discuss issues of being gay and having children.
    > how often do you meet: Once per month
    > where do you meet: varies
    > contact person: Jim (organizer)
    > additional info: We are a support group for those who are questioning homosexuality, coming out, or have been out.

Georgia

  • MEGA Family Project (updated 11.2006)
    >     mission: We provide education, advocacy, and support to Georgia's LGBT families and our community. We hold monthly activities from educational seminars, play groups, parenting workshops, and social activities. We also advocacte for our families at the state Capitol.
    > how often do you meet: We hold weekly playgroups for young children, and monthly activities for parents and older kids.
    > where do you meet: Locations vary.
    > contact person: Kathy Kelly, Excecutive Director
    > phone number: 404-808-3350
    > group website: http://www.megafamilyproject.org
    > mailing address: PO Box 29631, Atlanta, GA 30359
    > additional info: We also have a 501c4 arm of our group: MEGA Family Action Fund

Hawaii

Idaho

Illinois

  • C U Family Pride Network (updated 10.2006)
    > mission: Our mission is to provide mutual support, socialization opportunities, and community collaboration to gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender parents and their children.
    > how often do you meet: We meet bimonthy
    > where do you meet: At various locations around the community
    > contact person: Tim Shea
    > phone number: (217) 649-9076, mailing addy: Tim Shea, 507 W. Springfield Ave., Urbana, IL 61801
  • Lesbian Mom's Network of Chicago (updated 8.2007)
    > mission: An internet group of Lesbian Mom's in the Chicago/Chicagoland area. Support, information, and anything else needed to grow as a community. It is an invitation by moderator and or members to join.
    > how often do you meet: Basically posting on the internet to our members, from members.
    > contact person: Christine McGrath-Moderator

Indiana

Iowa

Kansas

Kentucky

Louisiana

Maine

Maryland

  • National Community of Lesbian Families (updated 10.2006)
    > mission: NCOLFs mission is to create a community that empowers lesbian parents of color as individuals and supports the needs of our families, specifically through family-oriented social events.
    > how often do you meet: we meet every 3rd Thursday of each month
    > where do you meet: Greenbelt, Maryland
    > contact person: Phyllis Jackson-Co-Founder, Racquelia Kilby-Co-Founder
    > phone number: 240-432-6753
    > group website: http://groups.google.com/group/ncolf
    > mailing address: 7907 Mandan Road, Greenbelt, Maryland

Massachusetts

  • Boston Gay and Lesbian Parents Group (updated 2.2007)
    > mission: To support gay and lesbian parents of children up to 1 year old. Facilitated by parent educator, group offers general parenting support, child-rearing information, specific support around gay/lesbian issues (legal, second-parent adoption, family support), etc.
    > how often do you meet: Every Friday, 11:00 am to 12:30 pm
    > where do you meet: Curtis Hall, Jamaica Plain, MA (120 South Street)
    > contact person: Christine Sweeney, coordinator Tracy Rich, facilitator
    > phone number: 617-667-2229 or 617-852--6699
    > additional info: Co-sponsored by Jewish Family and Children's Services Center for Early Relationship Support and Beth Israel Deaconness Parent Connection
  • LGBT Parents Pioneer Valley (Western MA) (updated 6.2007)
    > mission: This group is for lesbian, gay, bi, trans parents (and expecting or hopeful parents) living around the Pioneer Valley in Western Massachusetts (Amherst, Easthampton, Hadley, Holyoke, Northampton, South Hadley, Springfield, etc.). It is for support and information, chatting about our families and children, as well as socializing and organizing get-togethers/play-dates.
    > how often do you meet: Email discussion group with occasional meetings. Join at http://groups.yahoo.com/group/lgbt_parents_pioneer_valley
    > where do you meet: Email discussion group with occasional meetings at parks/homes/etc.
    > contact person: Beryl Hoffman
    > email address: hoffmanb@elms.edu
    > group website: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/lgbt_parents_pioneer_valley
  • Mass LGBT Family Meetup (updated 10.2006)
    > mission: This is a casual group that meets just to hang out and have fun together. We may occassionally plan outings. Mainly children 6 and under, but we are open to all ages.
    > how often do you meet: Monthly, time and day varies, but usualy a weekend
    > where do you meet: Milford, MA
    > contact person: Kelley Faulkner
    > phone number: 508-429-6663
    > group website: www.raisingthefuture.com
  • Gay & Bisexual Dads of New England (updated 11.2006)
    > mission: This group was founded by Frank Mahoney in August 2003, and was created for gay and bisexual men with children to get together and share experiences, concerns, make friends and socialize with other gay and bisexual dads.
    Some members are still married, some closeted and some out to their families. There is no pressure in this group to do anything you do not want to do or take part in. No one will ever “out” you.
    We all have our own situations, and the intentions of this group are to help you meet other gay and bisexual dads and share your experiences. No one has to do it all alone and no one has to feel alone either. If you have any questions, comments or issues, please email me at beargazer@yahoo.com!
    Potluck dinners, bar night and family socials (amusement park and holiday parties) are planned with member input. All gatherings (except bar night) are family oriented!
    > how often do you meet: Formal meeting once a month (date is decided on member input). Dinners planned once a month as well as pot luck dinners over members houses. Strictly voluntary. Days at the beach, amusement park days and holiday parties are all family oriented.
    > where do you meet: Various locations
    Frank Mahoney & Roger Yokell home in Fall River
    > contact person: Frank Mahoney, Creator, Moderator
    > phone number: 508-676-5745
    > group website: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/GayandBiDadsofNewEngland/?yguid=10112599
    > mailing address: Frank Mahoney, 95 Angell Street, Fall River, MA 02723
  • Greater Springfield Family Playgroup (updated 10.2006)
    > mission: Our group values the time that our children spend with other gay-headed families. Therefore, we make this our committment every week, so the children can form lasting friendships.
    > how often do you meet: Our group meets weekly on Mondays in each other's homes. The children play for about 2 hours and the parents get to visit with each other to share stories. The last Monday of each month we have a pot-luck dinner.
    > where do you meet: We rotate the sessions at each other's homes. Sometimes we are inside, sometimes outside. Sometimes during the winter months we meet at a McDonald's where there is a playscape.
    > contact person: Vicky Gruneiro
    > phone number: 413 222-6850
    > email address: vickyg@acninc.net
    > mailing address: 88 Mayflower Rd, Springfield, MA 01118
    > additional info: We are open to having more families join us.
  • LGBT Parents Group in North Andover (updated 2.2007)
    > mission: If you are an LGBT parent (or expecting, adoptive or otherwise!) from within the North Parish community, or from the larger community, please join us for support and discussion.
    > how often do you meet: First Friday of each month, 6:30-8:00 pm
    > where do you meet: North Parish Unitarian Universalist Church 190 Academy Rd, North Andover, Massachusetts, 978-687-7948
    > contact person: Mary Kilpatrick
    > phone number: 978-685-8816
    > group website: http://www.interweave-np.org
    > additional info: Childcare provided by Interweave members and friends and North Parish certified child care workers. Dinner is shared.
  • Older Kids' Group (updated 2.2007)
    > mission: To support gay and lesbian parents of children 8 months to 3 years old.
    > how often do you meet: 1st Tuesday of the month, 11:00am-12:30pm
    > where do you meet: Roslindale, MA (in group member's home)
    > contact person: Tracy Rich, facilitator
    > phone number: 617-852-6699

Michigan

  • Affirmations Rainbow Families Playgroup (updated 4.23.2007)
    > mission: Affirmations mission is to provide a welcoming space for everyday people, where they can learn, socialize, grow, be supported and find acceptance.
    > how often do you meet: This group meets once per week on Wednesdays from 10:00-11:30 am. This group is for LGBT families that have children up to age 4.
    > where do you meet: Affirmations Community Center - 290 W.Nine Mile Rd., Ferndale, MI 48220
    > contact person: Deanna Tocco, Program Director
    > phone number: 248.398.7105 x223
    > group website: www.goaffirmations.org
    > mailing address: 290 W. Nine Mile Rd., Ferndale, MI 48220
  • Lesbian Moms' Network (udpdated 1.2007)
         > mission: Lesbian Moms’ Network,Greater Ann Arbor/Ypsilanti Area (Washtenaw Cty), MI Founded January 2000:
    The Lesbian Moms’ Network was “officially” founded by three local women, who mailed the first newsletter in January 2000 to approximately 50 families. The organization was created to pull together the larger community of lesbians who have chosen to become parents in the Ann Arbor/Ypsilanti Area within Washtenaw County. We wanted to create a network that will be easily accessible for all the lesbian moms, their children, women in the process of choosing children, and their allies, and also, a way to welcome new families into our wonderful community.
    > how often do you meet: The non-profit organization has grown to over 250 area families! LMNetwork provides a variety of community services including, but not limited to, an annual educational parenting conference, monthly social events, a local newsletter, family care including meals for families with new additions, general resource support, smaller support group coordination, play groups, babysitting and resource exchanges, and an active email loop for information sharing. And one of the most important aspects of the organization is a way to connect with other families, and find information about lesbian parenting from local parents. We answer between 10-50 emails of inquiry a month.
    As an organization we have provided the following types of social events for family connections and fun: annual labor day family picnic, gymboree play days, summer private pool time, fall orchard trips, fishing, theatre and museum trips, and zoo explorations. All social events are coordinated by members who have an interest in the theme, or by the social event coordinator, in conjunction with the Board of Directors.
    Business Meetings:
    Monthly business meetings are held from 6:30pm —8:30pm, the third Monday of every month. All members are welcome to attend! You can join in the conversation, volunteer for tasks, help with the kids, or just stop by to feel connected. We meet at one of our board member's house, so the kids can utilize the playrooms. Child Care is usually provided.
    > where do you meet: Board of Director Meeting, 3rd Monday of the Month, 6:30pm -8:30pm, WRAP, email lmnetwork@umich.edu for verification.
    > contact person: Elena Weissman, Chair; Johanna Mabry, Vice-Chair; Donna Rafferty, Membership Coordinator
    > group website: http://www.lmnetwork.org/
    > mailing address: P. O. Box 2113, Ann Arbor, MI 48106-2113
    > additional contact info: Elena.Weissman@gmail.com
    > additional info: As an organization we have organized the following small support groups for family and parent support: Trying to Conceive group, International Adoption group, Moms of Older Kids (MOOK) group, Divorced / Separated Support group, Solo Parenting group, COLAGE (Children of Lesbian and Gays Everywhere) Teen Group, and others. Members request small group topics, and self-organize.

Minnesota

  • Rainbow Families ® (updated 7 .2007)
    > mission: Rainbow Families® works to build a safe, just, and affirming world for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender parents and their children. We support several groups for LGBT parents and prospective parents in Minnesota. Contact us or visit our website for more information on these and other groups.
    > how often do you meet: -Rainbow Families®-Up North, social and educational, serving families in the Duluth/Superior area.
    -Rainbow Families®-Rochester, social and educational, serving families in the Rochester area.
    -Rainbow Families® Prospective Parent Dessert Potlucks, meeting monthly (first Thursdays) to support LGBT prospective parents in the Greater Twin Cities area.
    -Third Sundays, the Twin Cities Gay Dads Network, learn more at www.thirdsunday.com. Meets the third Sunday of each month.
    -All in the Family, for parents coming out later in life, newly formed group serving the Greater Twin Cities area.
    -Twin Cities Rainbow Baby & Toddler Network, for parents and their young children. Social group doing regular potlucks in the Twin Cities area.
    > where do you meet: Refer to our website for details.
    > contact person: Abby Switkin, assistant director, or Mary Stennes Wilbourn, communications & outreach director.
    > phone number: 612-827-7731
    > group website: www.rainbowfamilies.org
    > mailing address: Rainbow Families®, 711 West Lake Street, Suite 210, Minneapolis, MN 55408
    > additional info: Not finding the group you need in Minnesota? Looking to start a group? Please contact us for assistance.

Mississippi

Missouri

  • Midwest Alternative Families Alliance (updated 11.2006)
         > mission: The Midwest Alternative Family Alliance was organized in 2002 by a small group of people in Kansas City who were concerned that local gay and lesbian parents and prospective parents needed a presence, a voice, and a way to connect with each other. In 2005, MAFA became a 501c3 non-profit organization.
    MAFA supports LGBT parents in the greater Kansas City area and beyond to build families and raise children in a community that is respectful, encouraging, and inclusive.
    > how often do you meet: Currently, meetings are scheduled around specific events. The board meets monthly.
    > where do you meet: Dependent upon the event.
    > contact person: Lynn Barnett, President
    > group website: kcmafa.org
    > mailing address: Midwest Alternative Family Alliance PO Box 6752, Shawnee Mission, KS 66206-9998

Montana

Nebraska

Nevada

  • We Are Family - Las Vegas (updated 1.2007)
    > mission: "We Are Family - Las Vegas" is a social support network, reaching out to connect gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgendered parents and their children in Southern Nevada. The goals of the We Are Family group include: increasing participation in social events to help families connect with each other and promoting accurate messages about LGBT families to enhance public understanding.
    > how often do you meet: We do not have regularly scheduled meetings. Check out the Events page on our website for a list of currently scheduled get-togethers.
    > contact person: Holly or Tami
    > group website: www.wearefamilylv.com

New Hampshire

  • GLBT Family Social (updated 11.2006)
    > mission: This family program is offered by Families First Health and Support Center in Portsmouth, NH each month. This group offers both the parents and the children the opportunity to connect with each other. During the first hour the parents meet in a comfortable room while the kids are supervised in the children's room by qualitied staff and volunteers. During the second hour there is usually a family activity such as cookie decorating, a scavenger hunt or time on the playground.
    > how often do you meet: The family social meets on the second Saturday each month from 3:00-5:00 PM except during June, July and August.
    > where do you meet: We meet at Families First Health and Support Center, 100 Campus Drive, Suite 12, Portsmouth, NH 03801
    > contact person: Program Director, Keryn Kriegl
    > phone number: 603-422-8208 x 602
    > group website: www.familiesfirstseacoast.org
    > mailing address: 100 Campus Drive, Suite 12, Portsmouth, NH 03801
  • Rainbow Families of the Granite State, NH (updated 1.2007)
    > mission: Rainbow Families of the Granite State, NH (formerly Rainbow Families of New Hampshire) is the glue that holds New Hampshire GLBTQ families together. For over a decade our group has allowed LGBTQ families to reach out to one another despite the spread out and rural nature of our state.
    Our families span the state from all areas such as on the seacoast, monadnocks, central NH on up to the white mountains.
    Members contribute by emailing the group with information about events happening in their area, asking questions and sharing information. All members are encouraged to create activities and events and their input on group structure, creativity and energy is welcome.
    The list manager approves all new members.
    *NEW PROCEDURE* PROSPECTIVE MEMBERS MUST EMAIL LIST MANAGER at Thibeault_C@yahoo.com to join. We hope this helps legitimate people who want to join to do so easier and makes it easier to keep out the spammers, viral emails, and psychoweirdos.
    The manager also has the ability to remove any member who sends spam, intentional viruses or inappropriate content, so our real members can be assured that if we have these problems they will be short lived.
    All emails sent to the group must be appropriate for children’s eyes and ears.
    Thank you for inquiring about RFofGS,NH.
    > how often do you meet: We do not have regular meetings, instead our members organize events of their choosing and let the members know through the email list. We frequently have activities in the Seacoast area and occasionally have events in other areas of the state too. To be in the know about what is happening, please email our list manager Cami at Thibeault_C@yahoo.com to subscribe.
    > where do you meet: Various locations around the state.
    > contact person: Cami Thibeault
    > phone number: 603-490-9509
    > group website: You will get address with membership see above.
    > mailing address: Thibeault_C@yahoo.com
    > additional info: New Hampshire is a great place to live and raise your rainbow family!! We have a diverse and thriving community here and welcome new LGBTQ families to our social circle.
    additional contact info: None at this time.

New Jersey

  • Gay Fathers of NJ (updated 1.200 7 )
    > mission: Gay fathers from New Jersey who want to discuss issues relating to fatherhood, meet or do activities with their children. We meet every so often at people's homes or events.
    > how often do you meet: Once a month (except summer)
    > where do you meet: homes
    > contact person: Ron
    > group website: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/GayFathersNJ
  • Morris County Gay/Straight Parent's Alliance (updated 1.2007)
    > mission: The GSPA was created and is supported by the Morris County Chapter of the National Organization of Women and the chapter's Mothers' and Caregivers' Economic Rights Task Force. It's goal is to advocate for and raise public awareness about policies that promote stability and security for all families. Those policies can be economic, such as, paid family leave, social security credits for at-home parents or affordable, quality child care. We also educate and advocate for policies that will create safe schools for all children. The alliance will work to ensure that anti-bullying policies be established and enforced in our public schools and that such policies acknowledge sexual orientation and gender identity or expression as areas of particular sensitivity. Finally, we, of course, advocate for full marriage equality for all persons.
    > how often do you meet: The GSPA is a subcommittee of the Economic Rights Task Force. The Task Force meets the first Tuesday of every month at 10:00 a.m. We also meet one other day of the month, usually at a members home.
    > where do you meet: Morris County Community Center, Jim Fear Drive, Morris Plains, NJ (first Tuesday of month only)
    > contact person: Heather Turnbull, Chair, Gay/Straight Parents Alliance
    > group website: www.erights4all.com/now/morriscounty
    > mailing address: Morris County NOW, P.O. Box 394, Morristown, NJ 07960
  • Rainbow Families of New Jersey (updated 11.2006)
    > mission: - To Provide a means for GLBT parents in NJ to form a community
    - To support other GLBT individuals in their efforts to become parents
    - To foster awareness of and respect for GLBT-headed households to the general public
    - To advocate for the issues and concerns that face GLBT families
    > how often do you meet: Rainbow Families of New Jersey (RFNJ) organizes and sponsors a diverse series of events throughout the year. We aim to provide social events where kids can have fun, parents and prospective parents can meet and network with one another, and our children can see other families like theirs.
    > phone number: 973-763-8511
    > group website: rainbowfamiliesnj.org
    > mailing address: PO Box 1385, Maplewood, NJ 07040
    > additional info: RFNJ offers a variety of support groups within our larger membership. Formally Lambda Families

New Mexico

New York

  • Brooklyn Rainbows (updated 11.2006)
    >     mission: Social and informal support group for LGBTQ parents, their families and those considering parenting.
    > how often do you meet: Monthly gathering the second weekend of the month, along with a list-serv and weekly playgroup.
    > where do you meet: Various locations in Brooklyn.
    > contact person: Shannon Casey, co-founder / William Sherr, co-founder
    > phone number: (718) 499-1132
    > additional info: We work with Brooklyn Pride, Center Kids, LGBTQIAC, PSQPG and have been members of Family Pride since 2005.
  • Center Family in Kingston, New York (updated 4.23.2007)
    > mission: CenterFamily is a social and informational group for LGBTQ parents and their kids. Members regularly organize events and gatherings where LGBTQ parents can connect and network with one another while their children have lots of fun befriending others from similar families
    > where do you meet: 300 Wall Street, Kingston, NY
    > contact person: parent leader Anibal Garcia at anibal393@aol.com, or (845)430-7844
    > phone number: (845)430-7844
    > group website: http://lgbtqcenter.org
    > mailing address: Hudson Valley LGBTQCommunity Center Box 3994 Kingston, New York 12402 845.331.5300
  • Center Kids (updated 2.2007)
    > mission: Since 1988, Center Kids has provided support groups for lgbt people planning parenthood, and social networking opportunities for parents and chidren in the Greater New York City area.
    > how often do you meet: Most support groups meet monthly (some more often).
    We have a monthly social event for families, Family Play Dates. Upcoming dates: Feb. 17, March 18, April 28, May 19.
    > where do you meet: The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Community Center, 208 W. 13th St., Manhattan.
    > contact person: Terry Boggis, Director
    >     phone number: 212-620-7310
    >     group website: www.gaycenter.org
    > mailing address: 208 W. 13th St., New York, NY 10011
  • Loft Kids (updated 11.2006)
    > mission: Social support group for families in the NY, NJ, CT area. Most of our families are from Westchester and Fairfield Counties, but we have people that come from Manhattan and the outer bouroughs as well as from NJ. We have playgroups and several parties and get togethers throughout the year.
    > how often do you meet: We have around 6 gatherings of the entire group each year. There is a preschool playgroup that gets together around once a month.
    > where do you meet: Usually in White Plains, NY
    > contact person: Gregg Cartagine
    > phone number: 203-912-6530
    > email: loftkidsny@yahoo.com
  • Loft Minis (updated 1.2007)
    > mission: A social and support group for children ages 0-6 and their LGBTQ parents. We are primarily a toddler/pre-school play group for children of gay and lesbian parents. We are a subgroup of Loft Kids NY. We meet for the friendship, visibility, and support of all group members.
    > how often do you meet: The first weekend of the month, with occasional mid-month playdates.
    > where do you meet: Meet at educational and recreational activities in the tri-state area- Westchester, Rockland, Bergen, and Fairfield Counties.
    > contact person: Ms. MJ Kubiak
    > phone number: 914-564-6578
  • Northern New York Families (updated 11.2006)
    > mission: To provide support and social activities for GLBT parents and their children. We usually have pot luck meals at a member's home. We also get together with the local GLBT group "Prism" and the local PFLAG chapter several times a year.
    > how often do you meet: Meetings are episodic, usually 4-6 times a year
    > where do you meet: Member's home
    > contact person: Gary Berk
    > phone number: 315 347-2178
    > group website:     www.prismny.org
    > mailing address: 68 Streeter Rd., DeKalb, NY 13630
  • OrangePride Parents (updated 1.2007)
    > mission: LGBTQ parents Support Group. For Birth, Adoptive & Foster Parents. Networking, support, discussions, resources.
    > how often do you meet: The last Sunday of each month at 3pm
    > where do you meet: The Grace Episcopal Church, 58 North St., Middletown, NY 10940
    > contact person: E. Moriah Beattie, Vice President, OrangePride & Member, Board of Driectors, OC Foster Parents Association
    > phone number: 845-856-7272
    > group website: www.orangepride.org
    > mailing address: 581 Mountain Rd., Port Jervis, NY 12771
    > additional info: All are welcome!
  • Rainbow Families of Staten Island (updated 11.2006)
    >     mission: Rainbow Families is a support group for lesbian and gay parents, their children and our non-gay family members on Staten Island. The group is co-sponsored by the Staten Island Children's Museum and the LGBT (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender) Health and Wellness Project of the Community Health Action of Staten Island and welcomes all families.
         We attempt to have a discussion topic for these get-togethers; and we also allow a free-flow of conversation that can include anything from nutrition and learning how to get kids to eat vegetables, to creative ways to have time as a couple. We've discussed how best to get involved in schools, finding the best pediatrician, strategies for potty training and finding language to describe their family structure to others.
         > While parents chat, children can play with each other, under adult supervision. For the youngsters, the group provides a chance to experience families, who like theirs, may have two moms, or two fathers (or single moms or dads) in the household. Secondarily, the group offers the opportunity for children to build a network of peers with whom they can speak candidly about their feelings as they grow. > how often do you meet: We meet on the third Sunday of each month for play and conversation.
         > where do you meet: We meet at the Staten Island Children's Museum on the grounds of Snug Harbor (1000 Richmond Terrace). Take the S40 Bus along Richmond Terrace or you can drive - there is plenty of free parking.
         > contact person: Wayne Steinman
         > phone number: 718-987-6747
         > group website: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/RainbowFamiliesStatenIsland
         > mailing add ress : Rainbow Families of Staten Island 380 Van Duzer Street Staten Island, NY 10304

North Carolina

  • Triangle Families (updated 12.2006)
    > mission: Triangle Families is a group for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgendered parents & their families, wannabe parents, & friends of LGBT parents & families in the North Carolina Triangle area (Raleigh, Durham, Chapel Hill/Carrboro, Cary, etc). Speakers, social dinners, and playgroups are examples of activities organized by members of the group. TF held an LGBT Parenting Conference in Spring 2006 with multiple sessions on issues ranging from adoption to safe schools.
    > how often do you meet: We have a monthly casual meet-and-greet dinner night at a family-friendly restaurant in the area, and more formal meetings at varying locations several times a year, with organized activities, speakers or discussion groups.
    > where do you meet: Triangle Families meets in locations throughout the NC Triangle (Durham, Chapel Hill/Carrboro, Raleigh, Cary, etc).
    > contact person: TF is an informal, all-volunteer group. Members self-organize all events. To participate or learn more, join our Yahoo!Group at http://groups.yahoo.com/group/trianglefamilies/.
    > group website: http://www.trianglefamilies.org

North Dakota

Ohio

  • Family by Design (updated 11.2006)
         > mission: Social support group for LGBT parents. Family by Design welcomes all LGBT parents and those exploring parenthood.
    > how often do you meet: The group meets approximately once a month for family gatherings at local venues in the Greater Cleveland area. Several times a year there are Parents Only events. The group stays connected through email. Our home base is the LGBT Community Center of Greater Cleveland.
    > where do you meet: Local venues in the Greater Cleveland area and the LGBT Community Center of Greater Cleveland.
    > contact person: Jaime Bishop, group founder and facilitator
    > phone number: 216-556-5692
    > additional info: Family by Design currently has 45 families and growing. Our children range in age from newborn through adolescence and come to us through adoption, fostering and biology. Family by Design truly believes that Love Makes a Family and encourages LGBT parents to become involved.
  • P.A.C.T. (Parents and Children Together) (updated 10.2006)
    > mission: No formal mission statement at this time. The purpose of the group has been to provide an opportunity for social, informational, and political sharing. The group is about a year old and growing through the use of yahoo groups communications and monthly organized get-togethers. P.A.C.T. is based in Columbus.
    > how often do you meet: A committee has planned social activities once monthly that are posted on the yahoo group site. There is a directory of members and some families contact others independently based on ages of children, etc. Also, some families post invitations open to any interested families through the yahoo group email system. Also, information is requested and shared on-line among members on a variety of topics from physicians, to lawyers, to finding and creating families (resources, tips, etc.)
    > where do you meet: We meet in various places wherever the activity is planned. One can learn details about the activities from the yahoo group... Stonewall PACT
    > contact person: Laurie Green-Lauber, Interim PACT Coordinator
    > group website: stonewall pact yahoo groups

Oklahoma

  • Oklahoma City Lesbian Moms (updated 10.2006)
    > mission: We are lesbian moms, and some of us have children from straight relationships, through known and unknown donor insemination, and some of us have adopted children. Whether you are a birth mom, adoptive mom, the other mom or step-mom you are more than welcome to join our group for support and socialization.
    > how often do you meet: Group get togethers with our children monthly as well as a Moms Night Out.
    > where do you meet: Anywhere from a local park/lake to a member hosting an event in their home.
    > contact person: Kathy Ledbetter or Linda Lee Owners
    > phone number: 405-414-7298
    > group website: http://www.geocities.com/oklahomacitylesbianmoms
    > additional info: We are a group of lesbian moms located in Oklahoma City. You do not have to live in Oklahoma City to be a member of our group. We have members as far away as Australia and several different states.
    Some of us have children from straight relationships. Some of us have children through known and unknown donor insemination, and some of us have adopted children. Whether you are a birth mom, adoptive mom, the other mom or step-mom you are more than welcome to join our group for support and socialization.
    We try to schedule an event each month for moms and their kids to get together for picnics, outings to parks, events, and even potluck dinners. We also try to get together for Mom's Night Out.
    Other than get togethers we post through Yahoo Groups via email for general chat, support and networking. No topic is off limits. We discuss everything from trying to conceive, parenting, work and even politics.

Oregon

  • Daddies&Papas (updated 10.2006)
    > mission: Daddies&Papas is a social network for gay, bisexual, and transgender men raising children. Our goal is to provide a space for dads and their children to meet, socialize, and connect. Dads are responsible for supervising their kids at events and dinner is generally potluck.
    > how often do you meet: Daddies&Papas meets the 3rd Saturday of every month from 5pm-7pm.
    > where do you meet: The QCenter, Portland's Lesbian,Gay,Bi,Trans community center located at 69 SE Taylor at SE Water St.
    > contact person: Joshua and Stephen Dunlevy-Todd
    > phone number: 503-740-4039
    > group website: http://www.myspace.com/daddiesandpapas
  • Parenting/Pregnant Lesbians of Portland (PLOP) (updated 10.2007)
    > mission: The aim of the group is to provide a place where families can come together, play together, get support on issues unique to our type of parenting or impregnation, and provide a sense of normalcy to their children before the kids go to school. We want our children to know they are just one child in a large group of kids that have two moms in Portland. And we want to be a resource for lesbian couples who are just now thinking of having a child.
    > We in PLOP aim to share our collective knowledge to help answer questions, provide recommendations and advice, and facilitate baby-making and child-rearing within our community.
    > how often do you meet: The third Sunday of the month from 11:30 to 2p.m.
    > where do you meet: At the Portland Q Center during the winter months and in one of the local parks during the