new numbers released on gay and lesbian adoption/foster care
Dustin on Apr 17th 2007
Facts and figures often change when it comes to gay and lesbian parenting. Adoption and foster care are areas where this is particularly true. The Williams and Urban Institutes recently released an updated study on these issues, combining data from a number of reliable sources and taking a fresh look at things. Authored by Gary J. Gates , M.V. Lee Badgett, Jennifer Macomber and Kate Chambers, the study, “Adoption and Foster Care by Lesbian and Gay Parents in the United States,” is full of interesting findings, some of which are excerpted below.
(All statements are directly excerpted from study unless marked with an asterisk*. Otherwise, we’ve condensed some data for readability.)
Parenting and Adoption
- An estimated 27% of same-sex couples identified in Census 2000 have a child under 18 living in the home with them.
- More than half of gay men and 41% of lesbians express the desire to have a child. The percentage for gay men (52%) is higher than that of heterosexual and bisexual men (33% each).*
- An estimated 2,000,000 GLB people are interested in adopting.
- Approximately 65,000 adopted children are being raised by lesbian or gay parents, accounting for more than 4% of all adopted children in the United States.
- Gay and lesbian adoptive parents (uncoupled) represent nearly one in six single parents raising adopted children.*
- In four racial/ethnic categories, same-sex couples adopt children of color at a slightly higher rate than married heterosexual couples.* The racial/ethnic breakdown of children adopted by same-sex couples is 53% white, 14% African-American, 18% Hispanic/Latino(a), and 11% Asian/Pacific Islander. The breakdown for children of married heterosexual couples is 63% white, 11% African/American, 13% Hispanic/Latino(a), and 8% Asian/Pacific Islander.
- The top five states/districts in terms of the percentage of adopted children living with gay or lesbian parents are as follows: District of Columbia (28.6%), Massachusetts (16.4%), California (9.8%), New Mexico (9.0%), Alaska (8.6%).*
- On average, same-sex couples raising adopted children are older, more (formally) educated, and have more economic resources than other adoptive parents: The average household income for same-sex couples raising adopted children is $102,474, versus $81,900 for different-sex married couples, $43,746 for different-sex unmarried couples, and $36,312 for single parents. Same-sex couples hold graduate degrees at 34%, versus different-sex married couples at 13%, different-sex unmarried couples at 2% and single parents at 9%.
Parenting and Foster Care
- An estimated 10,300 foster children live with a lesbian or gay foster parent, accounting for nearly 3% of all of foster children in the Untied States and 6% of foster children living in non-kin family foster care placements.
- Almost 40% of all agencies and 83% of public agencies reported making at least one adoption placement with a lesbian or gay man. However, one-third of agencies would reject a gay or lesbian applicant, either because of the religious beliefs guiding the agency, a state law prohibiting placement with GLB parents, or a policy of placing children only with married couples. Additionally, agency heads are more likely to have negative views towards gays and lesbians adopting when they associate such adoptions with greater evaluation and support needs.*
- Among the more than a third of foster parents who are single, one in seven is a lesbian or gay parent.
- Single foster parents are more likely than others to be African-American (51%) and less likely to be white (31 percent). Foster children of single parents are more likely to be African-American (52%) and less likely to be white (26%) than children in other family types. Among foster families headed by couples, in contrast, approximately half of foster children are white and about 20% are African-American and an additional 20% are Latino(a).
- One recent study of Midwestern youth who are or were in foster care found that almost 7% identified as homosexual or bisexual.
- As of September 2005, 10,000 of the roughly 500,000 children in foster care (2%) had run away from their placement.
- The portion of foster children with a disability is highest among those in same-sex couple households (32%).
- Roughly 60% of all adoptions of children in foster care are by their foster parents.
- Prohibiting GLB people from fostering would cost an estimated $87 to $130 million dollars nationwide
- Prohibiting GLB people from fostering would result in the removal of 9,000 to 14,000 children from existing foster families.
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I’m a straight adoptive parent who adopted from foster care. This is excellent data and it matches the anecedotal stuff I know. For example, we had a lovely lesbian couple adopting a sibling group of five black children - they amazed me. They were just one of several we knew.
Foster care children need all the love they can get and anyone who is a fit parent by the normal standard parental values should be allowed to adopt. Children need LOVE and a HOME more than anything, more than politics or anything else involved. If someone is stable, informed and has love to give - SIGN THEM UP.
I’m not even mentioning the L/G/B/T youth in foster care who need role models and understanding - how fantastic a match it would be for a gay foster youth to have a gay parent!
I want you all to know that MANY of us are on your side. Those of us on the ground parenting these kids support anyone’s efforts to help children who need a home.
It’s funny, the people who are complaining about gay parents adopting from foster care are RARELY the people involved with it. It is just blowhards. Once you read these children’s files, see the effects of the abuse, the horror some of these children have been through that LAST thing you would care about is the sex of someone’s partner.
I wish everyone who has an issue with gays adopting from foster care would sign up and adopt some of these children! Children languishing in foster care or group homes in a country like the USA is disgusting quite honestly. This shouldn’t even be a problem. I’d love to carry a protest sign that says, ‘Step up or shut up’ to people who have an issue with gays adopting from foster care.
excellent information. Thank you!
We’re fostering on the way to adopting the ‘man of our dreams’. It’s worth the effort and we are lucky as he is. Thanks for the info. We’ll be including it in an upcoming blog.
GLBT adoptive parents seem to be better parents, based on our recent “gay” family cruise with R Family Vacations. We were interested to note that the CREW expressed the feeling that the 815 children of various ages were the best behaved they have ever had on a family cruise!
My wife and I took this cruise as representatives of PFLAG (Parents, Family, and Friends of Lesbians and Gays). It was a wonderful experience meeting so many proud and dedicated mom + mom and dad + dad families and their children!
PFLAG strongly supports adoption by all GLBT families who wish to adopt, and we advocate against the anti-gay adoption bills wherever they occur.
My partner and I are moving to Nj from Pa, we are looking to foster to adopt a child or 2 any suggestions?
Hi All,
I’m a semi-enlightened but straight neurobiologist locked in a pitched online battle with a bunch of homophobes on CNN’s Political Ticker blog:
http://politicalticker.blogs.cnn.com/2007/08/17/gays-jab-at-giuliani-over-mayoral-record/
I’d sure appreciate some help if anyone wants to join the fray.
Take care.
David
Salinas, CA
Just wanted to say that I absolutely agree with everything Michelle said. Kids need a good home with loving parents (or a parent) regardless of the parents’ sexual orientation. It is so true - you don’t see the people who oppose gay adoption lining up to adopt some of the 120,000 waiting children in foster care.
Christine Mitchell, author:
Welcome Home Home, Forever Child: A Celebration of Chidlren Adopted as Toddlers, Preschoolers, and Beyond
and Adoption Awarenss in School Assignments: A Guide for Parents and Educators